Are you a good person? Do you love your family? Would you help them in any way you could? What about those times when helping someone would do more harm than good? Do you have the guts to step aside and let others take over? You may have a good heart, filled with love, but, all respect to John Lennon, you may need more than love. Technical ability, strength, stamina, education, experience. These are the heavy hitters that can make the difference between life and death. You have to know when to step aside.